Friday, November 05, 2010

last few days...

a few things happened last few days... being offered contract to work somewhere else... making the transition, deciding when to start and how this job is gonna be... i think i got it all sorted out for now... its just a few mitigating factors now that will decide the actual dates.

next up will be how to use my resources available to me, how to tap into my network and expand my base. bankers friends, overseas friends, people moving in and out... my current pool of colleagues. they are all resources... its whether i know how to make sure i tap onto their network. details to be finalised....

contract not signed yet, nothing all too concrete, not gonna reveal much till everything is settled. details of building my base will have to be worked on when i got a tad more time to sit down and plan for it.

fate does play a spot on people, when I am leaving, i'm like getting the best roster period of my flying career, places i seldom get to go to or 2 long flts a month. the best thing now is my december flights are all rostered with friends and people i know. all my flights!! what are the chances? almost nil... but it happened... but certain things have to be given up for the so called greener pastures. Im trying my best to change for places i want to go but haven been or i haven covered properly. I think its slim but i have to forgo it if i have no choice. in my new job, Maybe i will meet good contacts who might pave the way for my next path, next stage in life. I must maintain good contacts with my clients and be their friends instead of a salesman. they are my resources for better clients or stepping stone for brighter path. I mustnt forget that. I'm just waiting for the email now...

met sheue yng in mel, nice to catch up with her, she brought me to a old school cafe in the suburb where everything was build on wooden planks and had the kampong feeling, serving all day breakfast.. not cheap but nice concept... i like... she is coming back next year, potential client for new job? maybe... met Louisa too to get things from her to pass to CJ and mum... errands trip this one. den i met Denise too...

Met Anthea for dinner last nite, i thot i planned for my future with my investments and insurances, but i never got down to details about the actual sums. She did, and she demonstrated how expensive and how she cannot afford mistiming in life. like she bought a condo, cannot afford car for now, cannot have baby if not it will disrupt everything. to smallest details like wedding rings and wedding tables and such. while it may seem to be calculative to some, but sometimes its really good to know your sums... I was wondering how come we ended up as slaves to money, something which we created... what i can do now to expand my sources of income?? more investments for now... since i am single... i need to really settle in my job fast den i can work on my sideline business which i have been thinking about. my passive incomes which i am ultimately aiming at and time to own my own properties.

she actually gave me a wake up call for relationship... maybe i was really used to relationships tt fall from sky, most of the time, my past relationships are initiated by my gfs... those which i like or try to work on, they never come out successful, and i know the reason why now...firstly im too mysterious as a person, people dun trust what they cant see... i always present myself as a friend, not as a potential partner.. that has got to change. I need to indicate my interest and work on it instead of fighting a guerrilla warfare which i always have been doing. Make the effort!! instead of touch and go... if the girl doesnt see u making effort, she wun be touched. The Mr Cool has got to go... now i know...

met joanna today, before she went back to states... i hope she come back soon, i miss chatting and having her ard... somehow we became good friends in terms of sharing ideas and investments. Shipping is the key word i told her today... maybe by the time she is back... i wud be more settled in and can start on something...

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