A buddy's wedding... 27/09/2008
The wedding of the first of my growing up buddies... Yibo...
feeling guilty that i had felt them out of my life largely for the past few years... cos of school... hall... and now work... i dun join them for the usual sunday soccer anymore... its sinful.. especially when we are there for each other since sec1.. been thru so much together.. skip class together to play soccer even right till jc... that now i hardly see them anymore.. hardly talk to them anymore... even though they had continued to meet regularly every sunday to play soccer... these are the people that i grow up with... how could i???
if not for Yibo's wedding today, i dunno when i will be able to see all of them together again... how trustworthy these group of friends has been when Yibo has been away and he left morst of the wedding preparations to their hands and everything went off without a glitch... not everyone will do that for you.. only your true friends.. only your friends whom u grow up with.. whom u can really call brothers... i guess that is what that has been missing in my life recently...
but it just feels so weird that someone who is so close to me is getting married... its kinda different from one who is your classmate for that few years... different from your cousin cos they are your relatives and there is a natural bond.. but its someone whom you grown up with and whoever they are, has shaped you to be who you are today... i dunno if the rest has come to think of it that way, but i did... maybe to some of them, they might think that i have drifted from the group, but they are all very dear to me... like how i made the effort to go to the church wedding early morning, though certain parts of me has been lacking in my efforts in friendship with them... nonetheless, they hold an unwaivering position in my heart, something which nobody can replace...
Besides, Yibo being the first of us to get married... i am glad that he hasnt changed over the years.. not like anyone of us do... we are all pretty much the same as far as we remember... maybe drifted apart cos of work or other reasons... It touches my heart deeply when Yibo took the drink we concocted for him and he said " Jingpei!! I trust you ah... dont sabo me!!" its just so him, over all these years... he never changed... it touches somewhere deep in me... thanks for the trust buddy... and he drank it... with no complains... that is wat brothers are for.. that is how much trust we have in each other.. no questions asked...
i must make more efforts to meet them... i really really must, i know i cannot afford to lose them, i know i simply cant... Thanks for the gathering buddies... thanks for not forgetting me buddies... thanks for inviting me Yibo... i really miss you guys.. i really do... i can considering giving up Eusoffianos just to get back our friendship... just to get back our 14 years of friendships... friendships that lasted more than half my lifetime... somethings never change... thanks yogi, zhiwei, yangfeng, zhenfu, zhiyuan, yizhou, KK, seng, Kapo, shangyang, gum, yibo..
Congratulations Yibo and Loretta....!!!
feeling guilty that i had felt them out of my life largely for the past few years... cos of school... hall... and now work... i dun join them for the usual sunday soccer anymore... its sinful.. especially when we are there for each other since sec1.. been thru so much together.. skip class together to play soccer even right till jc... that now i hardly see them anymore.. hardly talk to them anymore... even though they had continued to meet regularly every sunday to play soccer... these are the people that i grow up with... how could i???
if not for Yibo's wedding today, i dunno when i will be able to see all of them together again... how trustworthy these group of friends has been when Yibo has been away and he left morst of the wedding preparations to their hands and everything went off without a glitch... not everyone will do that for you.. only your true friends.. only your friends whom u grow up with.. whom u can really call brothers... i guess that is what that has been missing in my life recently...
but it just feels so weird that someone who is so close to me is getting married... its kinda different from one who is your classmate for that few years... different from your cousin cos they are your relatives and there is a natural bond.. but its someone whom you grown up with and whoever they are, has shaped you to be who you are today... i dunno if the rest has come to think of it that way, but i did... maybe to some of them, they might think that i have drifted from the group, but they are all very dear to me... like how i made the effort to go to the church wedding early morning, though certain parts of me has been lacking in my efforts in friendship with them... nonetheless, they hold an unwaivering position in my heart, something which nobody can replace...
Besides, Yibo being the first of us to get married... i am glad that he hasnt changed over the years.. not like anyone of us do... we are all pretty much the same as far as we remember... maybe drifted apart cos of work or other reasons... It touches my heart deeply when Yibo took the drink we concocted for him and he said " Jingpei!! I trust you ah... dont sabo me!!" its just so him, over all these years... he never changed... it touches somewhere deep in me... thanks for the trust buddy... and he drank it... with no complains... that is wat brothers are for.. that is how much trust we have in each other.. no questions asked...
i must make more efforts to meet them... i really really must, i know i cannot afford to lose them, i know i simply cant... Thanks for the gathering buddies... thanks for not forgetting me buddies... thanks for inviting me Yibo... i really miss you guys.. i really do... i can considering giving up Eusoffianos just to get back our friendship... just to get back our 14 years of friendships... friendships that lasted more than half my lifetime... somethings never change... thanks yogi, zhiwei, yangfeng, zhenfu, zhiyuan, yizhou, KK, seng, Kapo, shangyang, gum, yibo..
Congratulations Yibo and Loretta....!!!
posted by EniGmAtiC NoStaLgiA at 9/28/2008 12:33:00 AM
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